Number of marriages in advanced age increased in Turkey
by Anadolu Agency
ANKARAApr 12, 2015 - 12:00 am GMT+3
by Anadolu Agency
Apr 12, 2015 12:00 am
Last year, 3,112 people got married after the age of 70, according to official statistics. There were 2,712 males and 410 females. That may seem a small number out of 1.2 million Turkish people who tied the knot in Turkey last year, but according to U.N. demographic statistics, Turkey is nearly first among nations for senior citizen marriages. Attitudes toward marriage in Turkey may explain the large number of marriages at an advanced age.
In Turkey, marriage is seen as a secure institution, a way of solidifying and preserving the family, explained Sevim Atila Demir, an assistant professor of Sociology at Sakarya University in a paper published in 2013. While senior citizen couples could live together without marriage, the act of marriage founds a family and is perhaps a new beginning for them. Uğur Demirbaş, a psychologist, said that from birth to death we are motivated by our biological need for attachment – the need to be in a relationship – one of the basic needs of human beings. "People who did not have an attachment in their life will pursue this need until death. So, it is normal for people who are over 70 to look for a relationship."
"When we look at marriages at the age of 70, we do not see the same expectations or reasons as younger age marriages," commented İklim Öz, a psychologist and marriage counselor. "They need to marry due to the fear of loneliness toward the end of their life. When people get sick, they need a partner to take care of them as well as needing someone to sit next to her/him for a conversation, and to share a meal or a coffee." Öz said one of her patients commented: "I do not want to die alone. I never want to be alone and to be found dead at home many days or months later. That's why I want to marry." According to Öz, one of the main triggers of depression is loneliness. "Friendship and mutual dependence in marriage deepen late after 70. They want to eliminate loneliness with love and sharing," she said. Öz also said that children of people who are over 70 often want their father to get married, "because they want his wife to look after him and do his washing and cooking." "As a result, love and sex lead to marriage for young people, lovelessness and the desire to be loved lead to marriage for older people. A 'life partner' is always important no matter how old you are," she added.
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